My colleague Dr. Joy Davidson wrote an interesting–and balanced–article on men who love big beautiful women (BBW). Dr. Davidson points out that for the most part, the type of body a man is attracted to is a simple preference. However, some men take their love of BBW to the level of being a fetish. That’s when things get off track, when a man cares more about the physique than the woman.

Of course, men objectify women all the time, seeing them something like works of art to be admired and possessed. And women do the same.

Always best to put your energy into loving the person within. The flesh changes as we age, or, unfortunately, as we may encounter illness. If we love the soul within, then those involuntary changes aren’t likely to shift our attraction to a partner.

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