Comments on: Partner a Sexual Disappointment? Try Forgiveness http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com/blog/2010/02/01/partner-a-sexual-disappointment-try-forgiveness/ Sexuality And Intimacy For Men, Women And Couples Thu, 22 Jul 2010 20:49:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Dr Stephanie Buehler http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com/blog/2010/02/01/partner-a-sexual-disappointment-try-forgiveness/comment-page-1/#comment-21408 Dr Stephanie Buehler Wed, 10 Feb 2010 05:35:18 +0000 http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com/blog/?p=534#comment-21408 Thank you for your comment. A sexless marriage isn't what most people envision when they think about walking down the aisle. When someone says "life without sex is better," I can't help but wonder, better than what? The desire for sex is natural, like the desire for food, so when someone has no interest in sex, I'm curious about that. But if it doesn't interfere with your relationship because you both feel the same way, then it isn't a problem, in the usual sense of the word. Thank you for your comment.

A sexless marriage isn’t what most people envision when they think about walking down the aisle. When someone says “life without sex is better,” I can’t help but wonder, better than what? The desire for sex is natural, like the desire for food, so when someone has no interest in sex, I’m curious about that. But if it doesn’t interfere with your relationship because you both feel the same way, then it isn’t a problem, in the usual sense of the word.

]]> By: matt1941 http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com/blog/2010/02/01/partner-a-sexual-disappointment-try-forgiveness/comment-page-1/#comment-21407 matt1941 Wed, 10 Feb 2010 04:51:12 +0000 http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com/blog/?p=534#comment-21407 My comment on sexless marriage! Its not a bad deal, my wife and I have been married for 43 years. We had two kids early on and after the second we stopped sex and all that intimacy stuff. Last time for sex was about 30 years ago. We didn't have sex on our wedding night because my wife wasn't ready for that. After about a 2 months we had sex. We get along just fine and love each other Now that were older, life without sex is better! Wife isn't interested and I have a low libdo and now I have E/D. My comment on sexless marriage!
Its not a bad deal, my wife and I have been married for 43 years.
We had two kids early on and after the second we stopped sex and all that intimacy stuff. Last time for sex was about 30 years ago.
We didn’t have sex on our wedding night because my wife wasn’t
ready for that. After about a 2 months we had sex.
We get along just fine and love each other
Now that were older, life without sex is better! Wife isn’t interested and I have a low libdo and now I have E/D.

]]> By: Interesting posts, weekend of 2/6/10 « Feminists with Female Sexual Dysfunction http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com/blog/2010/02/01/partner-a-sexual-disappointment-try-forgiveness/comment-page-1/#comment-21403 Interesting posts, weekend of 2/6/10 « Feminists with Female Sexual Dysfunction Sun, 07 Feb 2010 00:48:46 +0000 http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com/blog/?p=534#comment-21403 [...] Partner a Sexual Disappointment? Try Forgiveness - A refreshing change from the usual “DTMFA” sentiment I all too often run into when advice columnists talk about problems in the bedroom. [...] [...] Partner a Sexual Disappointment? Try Forgiveness – A refreshing change from the usual “DTMFA” sentiment I all too often run into when advice columnists talk about problems in the bedroom. [...]

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