By: Amy

Amy — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 05:04:15 +0000

Before I start I have to say before we were married niether one of us had sex with any one else till we were married. One of those rare things we were virgins. We were physically attractive in our 20′s
I certainly think we qualify as being in a sexless marriage, its been about 20 years now. Were in our 60s. When first married we didn’t have sex (I)wife wasn’t ready, and I really can’t recall when it did happen, Im sure it was weeks or months later, and even then it was on and off for the next 23 years. Were both at fault, I have a big tendency to be in control of everything. It all has to happen on my terms. I don’t let my husband just go out with the guys, he hasn’t any real guy friends so he ends up staying home. I tell him all the time to stay away from other women. For some reason I just don’t trust him, and I really don’t know why. But I can go out with my friends and he dosen’t really care how long or with who. He just tells me have fun and if theres any problems call me. I think I could have an affare and he wouldn’t say anything. He’s very lated back type of guy. And he on the other had has said I just don’t want sex or be intimante with me or any one else. I was hurt!! Also he is not interested anymore, sex has no excitment, meaning, thrill what ever you call it. Now he has high blood pressure, cholesterol, sleep issues, ulcers,slight depression and he takes pills for all that and his sex desire is gone. Hes been to doc and tryed viagra passed out on low dosage, pump but nothing works. Our sex life is gone forever. His last comment was I hope I never have sex again just tired of the whole thing. We are not in our 20′s any more and physically were not the same any more. We wear wool pajamas and sleep in opposite directions in bed.

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By: Amy